{"id":3426,"date":"2024-08-29T18:20:45","date_gmt":"2024-08-29T16:20:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/defi30jours.fr\/?p=3426"},"modified":"2024-08-30T12:08:44","modified_gmt":"2024-08-30T10:08:44","slug":"what-women-look-for-in-a-man","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/defi30jours.fr\/en\/ce-que-les-femmes-recherchent-chez-un-homme\/","title":{"rendered":"What do women look for in a man in 2024?"},"content":{"rendered":"

This article is based on an interview given by Elliot Katz, the author of the book Being The Strong Man a Woman Wants.<\/span><\/p>\n

Against the grain of the current trend towards sensitive and attentive men, Elliot Katz develops a modern perspective on what a strong man should be in 2024, which he believes corresponds to what women are looking for in a man.<\/span><\/p>\n

Married for 10 years, then divorced, Elliot Katz sought to understand what had gone wrong in his marriage. After blaming his former partner (a classic reflex!), he embarked on questioning and personal research without preconceptions. The first truly relevant elements of an answer appeared to him when he researched how the transmission of how to be a man took place between adults and young people in older times. He ultimately discovered that this explained why women today complain about not meeting \u201creal men\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n

Order on Amazon<\/a><\/p>\n

Women like leadership<\/strong>
\n<\/span><\/h2>\n

By constantly trying not to be \u201ccontrolling\u201d, men have become nice guys, devoid of leadership and decision-making ability. The author, who has had conversations with many women, asserts that they like being alongside men who make decisions, much like this businesswoman who confided in him: \u00abI might be a boss at work, but when I am with a man, I want to feel like a woman, I want him to take charge.\u00bb\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Women aren't attracted to men who don't even know which caf\u00e9 to suggest for a date, nor which table to sit at once they arrive. In the name of kindness and equality, they fail to project the image of people capable of facing life. If you don't know how to choose a table, how are you going to be able to make important decisions in life?\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

Women like men who have a plan<\/strong><\/h2>\n

According to the accounts he received, women prefer men who have a plan and show themselves capable of taking charge. \u201cI've made a reservation at this restaurant, and after that we're going to see a show. I've bought two tickets for it. I'm picking you up at 6 pm, be ready.\u201d<\/em> Here is the gist of what they like to hear.<\/span><\/p>\n

If you want to assert your leadership, forget the \u201cWhat do you want to do?\u201d<\/em>, \u201cWhat time shall I pick you up?.<\/em> By doing this, you show your ability to make decisions, and therefore to take responsibility.<\/span><\/p>\n

Modern society no longer prepares you to be a man<\/strong><\/h2>\n

This tendency of men to shirk responsibility, which reflects the current era, was not true in the past. A shortcut would be to blame the feminists and accuse them of turning men into obedient lapdogs, but in reality it is rather a problem of transmission. Or the absence of transmission. At the present time, many men have grown up in fatherless families, due to divorces and single mothers. At school, they have often had teachers who were women, and they have grown up without a strong male role model. Male mentoring has been lost.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

The claim that women are looking for \u201cnew-age\u201d, sensitive and soft men has been propagated by the media. Men who behave in this way fit the bill to become women's friends, but not to provide the masculine presence they aspire to have by their side.<\/span><\/p>\n

Commander Being The Strong Man a Woman Wants<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

How to appear as a strong man<\/strong><\/h2>\n

The author mentions several mistakes not to make in order to appear like a strong man. Here are the 4 main ones:<\/span><\/p>\n